LET’S BE WISE BUILDERS AND ROLE MODELS

LET’S BE WISE BUILDERS AND ROLE MODELS

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in-law, and four

year old grandson.. The old man’s hand trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step fluttered. The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather’s shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon to the ground. When he grasped, the glass milk spilled on the tablecloth.

LITTLE THINGS AFFECT LITTLE MIND

The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess,

We must do something about grandfather,” said the son “I’ve had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.”

So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl. When the family glanced in Grandfather’s direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone. Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food. The four year old watched it all in silence.

ARE YOU A WISE BUILDER AND A GOOD ROLE MODEL?

One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wooden scraps on the floor.

He asked the child sweetly, “What are you making?”

Just as sweetly, the boy responded, “Oh I am making a little bowl for you and mama to eat your food in when I grow up.”

The four year old smiled and went back to work. The words so struck the parents that they were speechless. Then tears started to stream down their cheeks. Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.

That evening the husband took Grandfather’s hand and gently led him back to the family table. For the remainder of his days, he ate every meal with the family. And for some reasons neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled or the table cloth soiled.

Children are remarkably perceptive. Their eyes ever observe, their ears ever listen, and their minds ever process the message they absorb. If they see us patiently provide a happy atmosphere for family members, they will imitate that attitude for the rest of their lives. The wise parent realizes that every day the building blocks are being laid for the child’s future. Let’s be wise builders and role models.

Life is about people connecting with people, and making a positive difference. Take care of yourself and those you love, today and everyday through that we will be wise builders and role models.